Approve to adopt a session
Lets add an extra (optional) feature to sessions where if someone adopts the session you have to approve if you want to be adopted.
This works two way: If you offer a session and check this option, if somebody wants to adopt your session, first you need to allow them to. If you offer your session to the public and somebody wants to adopt you as their wearer, you have the option to decline it.
Since it would be optional you can still fulfill your fantasy of "giving up total control to a stranger", but if you check it, you have a chance to give up your freedom to a stranger who seems reasonably good. I think this option would geratly reduce the number of abandoned sessions and inactive holders or wearers (and Tjommel's work of releasing somebody, removing their inactive holder). It would also make it easier so the wearer can have actual fun and not just somebody adopts the session and set it max duration and deleted the account. Obviously if you see somebody who just made an account or has 15 rating and every single one is 1-2 star you would consider giving that person your combination picture. This is also a good way to let each other know that you two might be a match for games and start to have a chat.
I think the benefits for a hodler is pretty obvious :)